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I got married in 2001.It was an arranged marriage.i was working before my marriage and was withdrawing very good salary.After 2 months or so of marriage he started beating me. I used to inform his mother but got just one answer ‘adjust’.She used to associate this with his astrology problem.Now I have two kids. Still he beats me sometime or the other.Now his mother has expired. My father-in-law is there. All his family members are very rich and educated. But no-body opens their mouth to talk to him on this topic. My husband is doing a business.He loves me, even I love him very much. He is doing his duties towards me and kids. Everything is there. He just gets angry for silly things and starts raising his hands on me.He is an educated person and carries a good image outside. I don’t know how to tackle this probleml.He is not ready to send me for a job.I am in my 40’s now.I feel giving him a back answer would only lead to worsening of the situation.So I just keep quiet and cry alone. Please advice me how to handle him in such situation.


Answered by : chandni05 on Sat, 16 Jan 2010

Dear Mam,
I can see that you are happy except for this problem,one way is to ignore it or go see a counsellor and take proper advise.Regarding taking a job,may be he feels you have small kids and there is no one to manage them at home.You should keep yourself busy by taking a hobby.If you sit idle you are going to feel sad.Regarding raising his hands in front of children be firm and tell him strongly you dont like it in front of kids.because they will tend to do the same.
Hope i have answered your problem.
Take Care!


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